The Dead Tree...
by C. Charles Chatham
Have you ever noticed how dead a fruit tree
appears to be during the winter? All barren
and lonely and forlorn?
Unless you can inspect it closely, or
break a branch to determine whether it is
still alive, you can easily arrive at the
conclusion the tree is dead.
But far from it! It's not dead — deep
within its roots and trunk constant activity
takes place, preparing for the spring. A
mysterious force works within it - not visible,
it is true — but all powerful in its universal nature.
All at once, in the spring, tiny little
nubbins magically appear, and leaves and
buds that forecast the coming of the time
of fruitage.
And
so it is with some of us as we struggle with
the transition period from
salesman to problem
solver —from getting to giving —from making
the
kill to helping our neighbor.
But
many of us look upon this time as dead time
— as unproductive time — as
frustration time.
And we despair, and a few of us lose heart and
wearily turn back into the jungle and take up once
again our machete.
We just didn't realize that it
was winter for our fruit tree — a very
necessary
time of rebuilding and strengthening and growing.
I
have watched a number of graduates
(subscribers of the Counselist
Newsletter) l
ose the battle for lack of faith and courage,
and the
knowledge that to change so radically
back to what we really should be
and should
be doing requires repairing and rebuilding
and recharging of
our inner selves. For our
outer experiences are a direct reflection of
our inner selves - always.
Why do we always think everything
we deem good must happen today? Now!
We don't want to wait, or to earn, or to
grow into this good — we want it right
now! So there!
Well, I have a little secret for you. That
ain't the law! The law requires that to
achieve success (its own definition of
success for us, by the way) we must change
to meet the demands of that success, we
must grow big enough and strong enough
and courageous enough to be able to sup-
port and defend that success. Otherwise
we are expecting a gullible law to give us
what we want for our own enjoyment without
our being competent enough to maintain it.
The result would be disastrous!
Those
of us who took to heart the analogy
of the River, and who stopped to
listen to
the knowledge within each of us, discovered
we really had
little to do with our
success — for it was a success which most
of us really didn't understand as success
for a period, and certainly one we would
not have deliberately chosen.
But success it was — and is. And
unless the winter period had prepared us
for this success, it could have destroyed us.
And that, too, has happened. I have witnessed
it too many times to doubt it for a second.
So, let's look at your situation right
now. Let's assume business is slow, you
don't
have enough CA's (Client Applicants),
your sales have fallen
drastically, your money
is dwindling away. So what? That's just
evidence
of the winter growing period. If you stay with the
principle
of desiring to help your
neighbor, there is no way you can ultimately
fail. The Law won't let you.
There is another mistake many of us
make. We actually think our success, our
welfare, our bank balance is our responsibility.
We believe we have to resort to any
number of maneuvers in order to make
enough money to put bread on the table,
and make the car payment. We even lie
awake nights worrying because we have
money only sufficient for four months.